Lest you think that we subject the kids to this state of madness daily, let me assure you that things had to get worse before they got better. So this is when things were at their worst.
BEFORE
Living Room
Entrance Hallway
Children's Play Area
Photos were strewn everywhere, the result of a long overdue (it’s been 2 years since we moved here) attempt to put up some family mug shots. Drawers and cupboards were turned out, in the vain hope of disposing of some of the contents. Christmas music was played to spread some cheer and drown out the sound of my disgruntled muttering at Hubby’s hoarding tendencies, the extent of which will be written up in another post.
After a good two weeks of consistent, after-work tidying, the end still seemed no closer in sight. In near panic at the thought that the kids would be back soon, we actually welcomed the flood-induced cancellation of our Taman Negara trip as this bought us more time to complete the tidying. I never thought I’d see the day when I’d willingly pass up a holiday to Taman Negara to clean house. Aargh! I am slowly but surely turning into a domesticated old woman. Anyway, 5 garbage bagfuls of rubbish later, here are the results of our blood, sweat and tears…
AFTER
Living Room
Entrance Hallway
Children's Play Area
Allow me to share with you some insights gained from this experience of spring tidying
1) Avoid it at all costs. Can be achieved by zealously throwing out all junk mail and clutter, preferably at point of entry. Unfortunately, Hubby finds credit card and supermarket mailers scintillating reading while sitting on the throne, and vetoed my idea for the placement of a dustbin at the front door for junk disposal. Sigh! File or put away everything else instantly, and get the kids to do the same. They’re slightly easier to train than husbands.
2) Institute an in-out policy. For every new item that comes into the house, at least one old item (preferably larger in size) has to leave in order to make space. This is not wastage, but wise resource management. Sell off your pre-loved items via websites such as http://www.lelong.com.my/ or http://www.ebay.com.my/, and let someone else experience the joy the item gave you. Better yet, give them away. NOTE: The only exception to this rule is children – they’re the only ones who get to stay!
3) If it must be done, do it when the kids are not around. That way, when you’re ready to call it a day, you can just drop everything and know that curious little hands will not come and move things around or break a treasured family heirloom (which you kinda forgot you even had until your momentary excavation unearthed it. Now, where did I put it again?).
4) Have a sense of humour about the whole exercise. A wise woman once told me that when she was confronted with the decision of whether to have a clean house and lose her husband, or keep her husband (and the clutter he generated), she chose the latter. As a result, my parents’ home always looks lived-in and homey (so long as you don’t open the cupboards or enter the store room) and I have a good model of marriage to follow.
